John 3:16
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”



Today I shall speak to you about the priceless gift of God. I believe we are all aware that a gift is something that cannot be earned. A gift is normally given to out at the giver’s discretion. A gift is never an obligation, neither is it given to satisfy a demand. To understand more about the priceless gift of God we shall take a closer look at the Motive for the gift , the gift itself and the recipient .


a. “ For God so loved ”

Here we are told the motive for which God gave his priceless gift. It is simply put as “ God so loved. ”

i. Unconditional love

It was His unconditional love that caused the creator of the heavens and the earth to gift the most precious gift to the world. His love does not rest in words or emotion, it has action. It was through his love that he had created the heavens and earth. It was due to his love that created human beings in His image. His love was also seen when He provided food and a pleasant environment for humans being and all the other living thin gs which God had made . God ’ s love is not due to our actions. We are love by God unconditionally.

ii. Infinite love

God’s love is infinite. This means it has no end. The spring of God’s love never runs dry. Its doors are never closed. The love of God is open ed all times, for everyone to experience. The Psalmist says, “O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever. ” ( Psalm 136:1 ) In Jeremiah 31:3, God said, “ … I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee. ” There is no end of God ’ s love. Paul wrote, “ For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. ” (Rom 8:38- 39)

b. “ the world ”

The Greek word is “ κόσμος ” or “ cosmos ” We now learn of the subject of God ’ s love and that is the world. There are two meanings attached to the Greek word for “ the world. ”

i. The Planet Earth

It implies that God loved the whole of planet earth. He loved all the mountains, the rivers, the seas and the whole of nature.

ii. The Inhabitants of the Planet Earth

It also implies God loved all the inhabitants of planet earth, particularly human beings. The human beings, the land animals, sea creature and the birds of the air are part of the world.

God’s motive for giving His priceless gift was His love for the world. We move on to look at the gift itself .


he gave his only begotten Son

The magnitude or the extent of God’s love for the world is perfectly express in the quality and value of the gift that He gave to the world .

a. His Son God gave His Son.

He gave His only begotten Son. I doubt that there could be a sane person among us who will be bold enough to give up his son, even if he were one of many children, to be killed in order to make peace with his enemies. We would protect our children and even give our lives for them if it were possible. That is how much we value them. The Son of God, Jesus Christ is more valuable than our children.

i. He is before all things (Col 1:15 – 17)

Everything that was made was made through the Son of God, not only that but also , everything was made for Him . Jesus Christ is the firstborn of all creation. Without Him nothing ever came to existence.

ii. He is the express image of the God (Heb 1:3)

Jesus is the brightness of God’s glory and He is the express image of his person. To say that He is the express image of God means that Jesus Christ is exactly like the Father. As the Father is eternal so is the Son. Jesus said, “For as the Father hath life in himself; so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself;” (John 5:26)

iii. He is the beloved Son of God (Mat 3:17, 17:5, Mar 1:11, Luke 9:35)

God testified about Jesus, saying “This is my beloved Son.” Jesus also affirmed that He was loved by the Father. In John 15:9, Jesus says, “As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you …

iv. His Only Begotten Son (Psalm 2:7)

Jesus was the only begotten Son of God. This means there was no other Son of God like Him. All the other sons of God (Gen 6 and Job 1:6) were created but He was the only begotten Son of God. God gave up not only His Son, but His only begotten Son.

b. Eternal Life

God did not only give us His Son but He also gave us eternal life. John say s in his letter, “And this is the record, that God hath given to us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. ” (1 John 5:1 1) . John says that God Himself is testifying that He has given us eternal life and that life can only be found in Jesus Christ. Paul says to the Roman Church, “ … the gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord. ” (Roman 6:23)

Jesus Christ was and is very valuable to His Father but He did not withhold him. Instead He gave Him up to the world.


That whosoever believeth in him

a. Whosoever (Anyone)

Jesus Christ who is the gift of God to the world is given so that anyone may benefit through Him. There is no nation, no language, no family or any individual, that is excluded. All are counted, into this awesome grace of God. The Jews and the Gentiles from every part of the world are all welcome.

The author of the letter to the Hebrews says , “…we are sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all.” (Heb 10:10). Jesus Christ was given once to the world, and He was given for all.

b. Believes on Him

The benefits of God’s Gift are limited to anyone who believes in Jesus Christ. A person may be religious and they may pray every day BUT if they don’t believe in Jesus Christ the Son of God they do not have eternal life. Though the Gift of God is given for all, it can only do well to those who believe in Jesus Christ.

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This week of The SpokesDude we remember the founding of the Spokesdude Podcast. The SpokesDude Podcast first episode was released on the 21st of January 2015. This is the legitimate cause for celebration.

We also take a look at the chaos caused by Donald Trump in the United States of the America with the imposition of the Government Shutdown. We also discredit the old sermon of Creflo Dollar where he purported the old heresy that says “we are gods’

Then finally we learn a new thing, something I never knew exist in a motor vehicle.

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First of all I would like to say thank you to everyone who responded and commented on the previous Episode

Today we show people who have it worse this January. First it is the people of the United States of America as they are going through a government shutdown. Also Jeff Bezos who is getting a divorce and his wife could potentially take half of his net wealth of $137 billion. Theresa May who had a devastating defeat in the vote in the House of Commons with regards to the Brexit deal on Tuesday night. A teacher at the Laerskool Schweizer-Reneke who got suspended over a picture that caused a racial stir in South Africa. Zimbabwean people whose economy is dropping at an alarming rate to such an extent that even KFC had to close shops for the lack of business.

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This is a rant caused by the constant nicknaming of January as “Janworry” by people who are often broke during this time of the year as the result of their over-spending in December. Lungisa N Joctrey took it upon himself to give a piece of his mind on the issues.

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2019 happy New Year


Very much often people set up what they call New Year’s Resolutions. I have no idea how this practice began, but I am sure some life hacking “expert” suggested it to hundreds of people who were listening to his “expert” advice. These hundreds of people then spread the word and told their friends, families, and work colleagues about the wonders of setting up New Year’s Resolutions. There is no doubt that in 2017 many people made New Year’s Resolutions for 2018 and again in 2018 resolutions were made for 2019. What is amazing is that most people are very vocal about their resolutions for the new year. They tell everyone they would meet how they are going to get out of debts, quit smoking, get married etc

The question that remains is that, “Do New Years Resolution really work?”  My intention today is to show that New Year’s Resolutions are a scam and many people have been held prisoner by the idea that they have to make a resolution for a particular year in order to achieve a particular milestone in life. Today I am going to attempt to answer five questions:

  1. What are the New Year’s Resolutions?
  2. How did New Years Resolutions begin?
  3. Do they Work?
  4. Why you shouldn’t use New Year’s Resolution?
  5. What should you do instead of New Years Resolutions?


New year’s resolutions are promises which are made by people at the beginning of each year, that they would accomplish certain things in that particular year. Many of these promises are made out of a sincere heart. You would hear one saying,”This year I will pay all my debts and I will quit smoking.” Someone will tell his wife, “This year I promise that I will be a faithful and a caring husband.” or “I promise that I will not touch weed this year.” As I said many of these promises are very sincere. The question is not whether these promises are sincere or not, the question is, will they ever be kept. Are we truly going to see the fulfillment of these  promises? Time does tell.


As I said earlier that I have no idea where, when, and why did the new year’s resolution begin. Which begs the question as to why am I even talking about their origin if I don’t know where this tradition came from. Well, for the sake of my dear lazy friends who only consume what is being said and never bother to go and check if the information is correct. I am putting a link to the source of the information which I am going to talk about.  I stumbled over

Well, according to :

Ancient Babylonians

The tradition of new year’s resolution is very old. This tradition can be traced back to the ancient Babylonians around 4000 years ago. It is said that ancient Babylonians would make promises to their deities whenever a new year began. Their new year was not in January as is the case today. The beginning of the year in January is due to some Roman nonsense which the world couldn’t shake off. It stuck with us like a woman’s lipstick on a shirt of a cheating husband. Okay back to the ancient Babylonians. The Babylonian year began some where around March.

The Babylonians promised their objects of worship that they would return what they have borrowed and also to pay all their debts. It was believed that when one would keep these promises they would be favored by their false gods. I mean come on, who doesn’t know that the Babylonian gods were false.


After Julius Caesar started his nonsense and tempered with the calendar and making the year start in January so the Romans began to celebrate new year’s day and they follow the Babylonian tradition of making promises but this time to Janus the false god after whom January is named. Of course these promises did not come with empty hands. They made a promise while they gave gifts to these false deities.


Sadly, it is very easy for Christians to follow through and perform foreign and unbiblical forms of worship which are inherited from the pagans. Some how Christians, the Methodist in particular, started to do what was known as watch-nights on New Year’s Eve or on New Year’s day. This is where prayers were offered and resolutions made for the New Year.

It is clear according to the that new year’s resolutions have a very strong and undeniable religious origin. This make me wonder if atheist play the new year’s resolutions game considering the source thereof.


New years resolutions never work. It is always up to the person making them to work and keep the promises they have made. Sadly, year after year people think that making a promise would change their bad habit. I have seen many people promising to do better but in the end they fail because deep down in their heart there is no true conviction and no commitment to the promise they have made. Many have promised to quit alcohol but then make no effort to keep away from alcoholic friends or to join alcohol anonymous kind of group in search for help. I have seen people who were able to quit alcohol without any new year’s resolutions but with a made up mind and a commitment to change. Their desire to change was seen in their daily lives until they succeeded. They made physical and evident changes around them. They quit hanging out with wrong friends and they made new friends who would help them reach their desired state of life.


You should not make new years resolutions because they are a waste of time. If you are not making important steps towards changing today, you will not change even on the following  year.  You need to make resolves today and start today to work on what you want to achieve.

There are Christian friends who have not read the bible from cover to cover. They keep postponing. “In January,” they say, ” I will start reading my bible until I finish it in December” January comes and also excuses accompany it. February comes and go. Before you know it, December is upon us and the bible has not been read from cover to cover as was promised. So new year’s resolution makes liars. My advice is if you are committed to read and finish the bible from Genesis to Revelation in 365 days. Start today. If you start in 2019 January 3,  your reading plan will end in 2020 January 2. If you start in May 25, your plan will end the following year on May 24. So stop the nonsense of New Year’s resolutions and save your self sometime. You’ll thank me later.


Instead of wasting your time with new years resolutions, you need to set goals and plan decisively on achieving them. You must want to achieve that goal and the journey to achieving it begins now. You must be prepared to leave your comfort zone and actually get dirty working with your hands or with available tools to achieve what you want. You must set a time frame for you goal. You don’t want to work for the rest of your life and getting nowhere. You must know how long it should take you to work in what you need to achieve. Have a comprehensive plan, with each step clearly defined.

Say your goal is to lose weight, and today is the 3rd of January. You could say something like : “By 3 June, I should have lost 50kg. To achieve this I shall run for 20 minutes every day.  My diet will consist of vegetables only and I will eat meat once a week. I will weigh myself every Wednesday and record my progress. I am starting this afternoon.”

I hope you will quit this bad habit that takes you nowhere, that is, if you are a new year’s resolution kind of person who gains nothing by them.

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How to Deal With Peer Pressure by Lungisa N Joctrey
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Hello and welcome to the The SpokesDude Podcast episode 002. My name is Lungisa Joctrey, thank you very much for joining me. Let me start off by saying, if you haven’t yet, you are welcome to subscribe to The SpokesDude Network on iTunes. You can also go to our website and subscribe there. When you click on the subscribe button on iTunes or on the website, you always will be notified when a new episode or post has been released.

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Well, let us waste no more of your time and get on with the business of the day. Today we are talking about “Peer pressure.”  How to deal with peer pressure?

Dealing with this topic we are going to answer a few questions on peer

  1. What is peer pressure?
  2. Are there different kinds of peer pressure?
  3. Is peer pressure good or bad?
  4. If bad who are the victims?
  5. If bad, how to overcome peer pressure?

Let’s get to it then.


Merriam Webster Dictionary defines peer pressure as, “ a feeling that one must do the same things as other people of one’s age or social group in order to be liked or respected by them.”

Another definition I picked up from google search is, “influence from members of one’s peer group.”


Peer pressure come in different forms. Some forms are well known and can be easily identified and other are subtle and affect a large number of people even those who think they are free from peer pressure.

(Non- Verbal) Asch Paradigm

I recently watched on YouTube three instances where an experiment was conducted to determine how an individual person would make an obvious wrong decision just because everyone is making it, even though that individual knows that it is wrong.

Right Answer/Wrong answer Experiment

The first two experiments I watched were practically the same. The one involved adults and the other teenagers. The majority of participants were ordered to give the same wrong answer so to determine how the test subject (who clearly had no clue that this was a setup) would react. The group was shown two images. One on the left and one on the right. The image in the right displayed three vertical lines and the one on the left had one vertical line. The group was required to compare the line on the left image with the three lines on the right image to determine which of the three line was of equal length as that to the left. The test subject eventually gave the wrong answer just as the whole group

The experiment was altered a bit, one more person was added who was instructed to give the right answer. With the partner who would give a right answer just before the test subject took their turn, the subject gave right answers.

The elevator experiment

We all know that when we enter the elevator we turn around and face the door. No one teaches us that. We all know it. It happens naturally. The experiment gets a large group of people who are spread from floor to floor and they each walk into the elevator, pick their floor number and stand facing the back of the elevator. Now again there would one test subject. Eventually about 80% of the test subject slowly turned to the back of the elevator just because they felt uncomfortable doing what others were not doing.

The traffic light decision

My observation of this kind of Peer Pressure is when we are in the city and we have to cross the road at the traffic light. I have heard a lot of angry car horns hooting at pedestrians who crossed the road illegally just because they followed two or three people who had carefully calculated their act to get to the other side despite the traffic. When some people see these brave idiots cross the road, they simply follow as sheep behind the shepherd, without even checking the traffic light.

So human beings have a tendency of depending on other people’s decision making, when making they own decisions. It does not matter whether these people are acquaintances or complete strangers. The philosophy is when you come to Rome you do as the Romans do.

Verbal Peer Pressure

This is a common type of peer pressure. An individual is persuaded by others into doing something they don’t want to do or something they know to be wrong just to avoid being ridiculed. They are told that taking drugs brings relaxation and clears the mind. They would cave in to the prompting of their peers or social group and participate in the practice that would otherwise ruin their lives rather than clear their mind.

Adult Peer Pressure

Many people think that only teenagers experience peer pressure. The adults also get to feel it and cave in to it.

One buys a new van just because each of his friends has one.  Another will shop at a particular shop just because most of his acquaintances or his neighbors shop there. When I grew up you’d hear the adults say, “what would the people say?” or “what would the pastor say?”

Yes, adult peer pressure is even recorded in the bible in Matthew 21:23-27.

And when he was come into the temple, the chief priests and the elders of the people came unto him as he was teaching, and said, By what authority doest thou these things? and who gave thee this authority? And Jesus answered and said unto them, I also will ask you one thing, which if ye tell me, I in like wise will tell you by what authority I do these things. The baptism of John, whence was it? from heaven, or of men? And they reasoned with themselves, saying, If we shall say, From heaven; he will say unto us, Why did ye not then believe him? But if we shall say, Of men; we fear the people; for all hold John as a prophet. And they answered Jesus, and said, We cannot tell. And he said unto them, Neither tell I you by what authority I do these things.”  


Peer pressure can be bad and also can be good. It simply depends on the context of it. We know that it is bad when people are bullied to do wrong things. Whenever peer pressure is mentioned that is the idea which comes to mind. We all sort of thing negative of peer pressure and for right reasons.

There can be instances where peer pressure is good. Like getting people to keep the local area clean. That kind of peer influence is good and it benefits everyone. It is also good to get people to think more about helping those who are in need. These are just examples of positive peer pressure.


Peer pressure affects everyone in general but in most cases negative peer pressure affect teenagers and it has driven some to either drop out from school, to get in a criminal life, or to commit suicide.


My thought on this question is that, people should be educated on these issues. Teenagers and old people should be made aware of that we are responsible and accountable for everything we do. When we make decisions we should think carefully on whether we are doing the right or we are just please strangers who would abandon us we get into trouble.

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Many people do not pay attention to what they hear or read. They tend to make important decisions based on the little information they have received without listening to the full story and thus get into trouble.

This is true in many areas of communication.

  1. Social Media Posts
  2. Signing of Contracts
  3. NewsPaper Headlines
  4. Bible Text

It is very easy to get into trouble when one enters into an agreement without first reading and fully understand the terms of that contract.  On Today’s Episode we are looking at that issue.

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